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Ask any engaged couple about the seating chart and they will probably sigh and may even look at you like this:

Unfortunately, there are so many things to do with planning a wedding that this task usually gets put off until the last minute.  We've heard horror stories of fire breathing Bridezillas & Groomzillas relating to this task, some couples even doing the seating chart the night before the wedding. Let’s see if we can simplify it a bit. 

Who Sits Where?
This may seem overwhelming at first but consider grouping  the guests following these tips.

The Bridal Table
This is probably your easiest table to identify.  The party has been picked months ago and for the most part everyone usually gets along.

Mix & Match Tables
The majority of wedding guests will make up these tables.  Try and match age levels accordingly so that your cheesy mortgage broker friend doesn’t pitch your grandma for the duration of the reception.  Also, you may want to consider political views.  Lastly, divorced parents usually need to be separated by at least a table or more.  Make sure they are not back to back at different tables!

The Singles Table
Ahhh… the drunkest and most fun table.  Well, it’s finally your turn to become the Wedding Matchmaker and there is usually a good chance to pair up a future couple.  The groom probably has an old college buddy that would fancy the bride’s childhood best friend.  Get creative here and listen to your instincts.

The Weird People Table
Sometimes the single persons table will overflow into this group.  If you have ever been single at a wedding you probably know what we’re talking about.  Try and place this table in the corner for obvious reasons.

What Websites Can Help?
We came across a few sites that can help you design your wedding seating arrangements in a snap. Here are our suggestions:

SocialTables.com
Social Tables has a really cool interface where you can import all of your guests and easily drag and drop them into seating arrangements.

WeddingWire.com
Wedding Wire has an interactive seating chart, along with other useful resources.

Good Luck and please share any good seating stories on our facebook fan page.

Aric Martinez
Co-Founder & CEO
Aric@iDoGifts.com